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At AskStellaNow.org, we listen closely to what parents tell us. Over and over, we hear the challenges, the stress, and the hopes that come with raising a child with special needs. That’s why we’ve started building simple, practical apps—tools designed to make your journey just a little easier. Each one is inspired by real families and created to meet everyday needs in a clear and useful way. And we’re not stopping here! If you can dream up an app or resource that would help you and other parents, we’d love to hear from you.
Just drop me a line at dave@thegearfoundation.org - your ideas could shape the next tool we create.
The Stella IEP Binder Builder
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Welcome, Advocate.
I am Stella, your Special Needs Concierge. My job is to help you move from emotional overwhelm to a strategic partnership with your school.
We are going to build your Parent Vision Statement and check for Tennessee State Compliance issues. This will take about 5 minutes.
The Basics
I need a few details to check legal timelines and safeguards.
The "North Star" Vision
If we were sitting here 3 years from now, what is the #1 thing your child would be doing that would make you feel successful?
(Examples: Reading independently, self-regulating when angry, having a best friend).
The "Glimmer" (Strengths)
Schools often focus on deficits. Let's change the narrative. What is a skill or trait your child has that makes you smile?
The "Fire" (Top Concern)
What is the biggest fire we need to put out right now? Is it academic (falling behind), behavioral (meltdowns), or social (bullying)?
Your Strategic IEP Binder
Based on your inputs, here is your executive summary to print and take to the meeting.
PARENT INPUT STATEMENT
Prepared for:
Generated by Stella | askstellanow.org
Parent Vision Statement (3-Year Outlook)
Student Strengths & "Glimmers"
Priority Concerns ("The Fire")
Data & Procedural Requests
• I request a copy of the draft IEP 48 hours prior to our meeting.
• I request that all raw data regarding the goals mentioned above be provided at the meeting.
A tool designed to help you organize your observations about your child's behavior. It can be a helpful starting point for conversations with healthcare professionals.
Create Your Child’s Personal Fact Sheet Here
Every child has a story worth sharing—and sometimes the best way to help schools, churches, or community groups understand your child is with something simple, clear, and personal.
That’s why we created the Personal Fact Sheet Creator, a free tool that allows parents to quickly build a one-page introduction for their child. With just a few easy questions, you can generate a colorful, personalized PDF that includes:
Key facts about your child’s personality, strengths, and needs
Bubble-style text that can be moved around the page to keep your child’s picture front and center
A clean format you can download, print, and share with teachers, caregivers, and community leaders
The ability to skip any question—so the sheet is never too busy and only includes what feels right for your family
Why is this helpful? Because whether it’s the first day of school, a new Sunday class, or joining a sports team, people want to connect—but they may not always know how. This fact sheet helps them start on the right foot.
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Complex to Simple: Special Needs Parenting Support March 17, 2026 1:59 pm